About Dating


GETTING DRESSED FOR A DATE

The Internet has been a great in terms of getting to meet people, what did we do without it? As a result I have had many dates with both TV loving guys and also with other TVs as well. I have also have done a couple of semi-professional photo and video shoots following replies to Internet adverts.

Going out on dates really excites me. It gives me an opportunity to get dressed to kill and of really exerting my feminine power.

The first priority prior to a date is to have a full body shave. Legs, bum, chest and of course face must always be kept silky smooth. I like to shave my pubes as well. I see pictures of so many CDs and TVs who in particular don't shave their legs. Hair underneath stockings or tights is not good news and is about as un-feminine as you could get!

So after the shave, then come the boobs. I have decided that hormones are just one step too far and so I have invested in the next best thing a pair of expensive silicon boobs. Stuck on with double sided sticky discs, they behave and feel like the real thing with a good 38C lacy bra to keep them in place.

Then to the make up. I like fairly subtle make up, not to heavy. The wig… well as you will see from my pictures I move from blonde to red hair depending on my mood and the image I want to create.

Lingerie starts with a cache sex to tuck my dangling bits between my legs, and then either suspenders matching the bra and stockings or tights depending on the length of skirt. I often wear really tight skirts so a panty girdle is also helpful in keeping everything streamlined.

Finally everything is set off with a nice silky blouse, short skirt or dress and heels. I feel a million dollars and ready to go and meet my man.


WHAT DO I EXPECT ON A DATE

Perhaps some people could be excused for wondering what guys find exciting from dating a TV.

Some of my dates are closet cross dressers themselves and like the opportunity of discussing their double life with a another like minded person. Others are just curious. The vast majority I have found expect sex in some form or another.

I am pleased to offer this as part of the date providing it's safe. However, to me it is a big turn off if after having spent an hour getting dressed and made up, the guy I date just expects a quick strip and into sex without recognising that having sex is just one part and often a small part of being a TV and becoming feminised.

Sex is great once both parties are ready but for those guys who date me and whose sole intent is to get their cocks into me either orally or anally as quickly as possible, I'm afraid they have to wait until I am ready.

Here I find dating other TVs often more rewarding because we both appreciate why we are there and the enjoyment that we get in just being dressed without the pressure for sex, although this is often an end result.

So the ultimate experience in a date for me is firstly to be treated gently like any lady should. I like to be given time and space. I like to be nurtured and told nice things about my clothes and my body. I like to be caressed. I like to be stroked particularly on my stockings and over my smooth skin. I like to be slowly undressed or asked to strip and then and only then I like to feel an excited large piece of masculine flesh climax deep inside me.


AND FINALLY...

If you've enjoyed reading my web pages and viewing my photo gallery do please contact me and let me know whether you have enjoyed my site and share with me your experiences.

Tranvestites like myself love to be seen and love to try to explain why they are as they are. If I achieve this through my web site then I shall be very happy.

Love,
Tonia

 

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